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I’ve heard of spirit haunting locations and paranormal investigators trying to help people find peace, but does it ever happen that spirit can be haunted and needs our help to find peace? When that question recently popped up in an email, I had to stop and think for a moment.

The subject line was “My late husband’s spirit really wants my help.” The email itself was short and succinct:

My astrologer told me my late husband in the spirit world may be in trouble and needs me to help. How can I know this is true, and what kind of help can I provide? I watch your YouTube videos, but you have never seemed to address this topic.

I quickly reviewed the titles of my more than 400 YouTube videos and found several that could kinda be related to this person’s issue, but none that exactly addressed their expressed concerns.

The first place I went to was: I hoped this astrologer wasn’t trying to scam the client, saying something like, “Yes, your late husband is in pain and needs help, and if you pay me $$$$ I can remove the curse/pain that he’s suffering with.” In fact, if any of you out there get a line like that from any psychic, medium, tarot reader etc., get up and walk away immediately from that pseudo-psychic con artist. Because that so-called intuitive is just trying to hook you with a psychic scam.

I’ve said this 1,000 times, and here’s 1,001 – spirit does not feel pain. Spirit is energy, and energy cannot feel pain. Energy is just energy. It’s like saying the light bulb in your room feels pain when you flick the off switch.

But I gave the email writer and their astrologer the benefit of the doubt by thinking the reading wasn’t made out of malice, but just misinterpreted. The late husband wasn’t feeling pain; perhaps he was trying to communicate sorrow for an action he did on the Earth plane. Why an astrologer would intuit that, I don’t know, but I can’t claim to know all the ins and outs of astrological prognostication based on planet conjunctions.

Here’s my replay to the email:

This is an unusual request, as I have not experienced any spirit needing help.  It is usually the other way around – we need the help and ask our loved ones in spirit for guidance.

My suggestion is to send a loving prayer of support to your loved ones and ask if they need anything from you. And make it so obvious that you see, hear or experience their message. Keep your intuition open. But really, this prayer of support you send out is more for you than for those in the spirit world. It makes us feel we are doing something to help.

I would not give this much more thought.  The spirit world is in a far better place than we are. I hope this helps. 

I never heard back from this woman, so I hope everything has worked out. And I hope that she doesn’t feel haunted by the idea that her late husband’s spirit is troubled, because he certainly isn’t. In many ways, spirit is more alive than we think.

If you have any questions or comments on this subject or on any other spiritual matter, feel free to contact me through this website. And please visit me again!

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