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SPIRITS IN THE FAMILY TREE

I was a little nervous, because I’d never given this type of reading before. I was going to be a kind-of detective, a seeker of souls lost in the mystery of time. Dora wanted me to contact spirits she had never met, because they held important clues to who she was, and where Dora came from. So, when she knocked on my office door a few afternoons ago, I whispered a quick prayer to my guides for help, then placed a smile on my face and ushered her in.

People generally book sessions with me because they want to hear from the spirits of their loved ones. Or, if they prefer a psychic reading, they want to know about their life in general. With that type of sitting, I still bring wisdom from the spirit world, and then encourage people to make their own choices about what’s best for them in a certain situation.

I knew my time with Dora would be different when she called for an appointment. Dora was a second-generation Canadian; her parents, born in Hungary, “named me after Saint Dorothea of Caesarea, the patron saint of gardeners, and one of the most important saints in Eastern Europe,” she said proudly. Clearly, this woman knew her history. (Maybe, I thought later, I should ask her to look at my garden, which wasn’t doing so well after the harsh winter.)

Dora wanted to see me because she was compiling information about her family tree, and hoped some ancestor in the spirit world would talk to her. She had traced her family back to Hungary and Romania, but many older records had been either lost or destroyed during World War II and the subsequent Communist occupation. And now here she was before me, hoping I could get spirit to help her genealogical pursuit.

Dora was a petite woman with jet black hair and an engaging smile. In one hand, she clasped a dark green file folder filled with papers. The other hand held a small brown paper bag. As I led her to my office, she asked me about my own Hungarian background – Molnar is a common Hungarian name, like Miller in England or Kelly in Ireland.

“Sorry,” I said with a laugh, gesturing for her to sit. “I married into the clan.”

“Oh, I thought,” she began, then pulled a small cellophane-covered paper plate from the paper bag and placed it on my desk. “I made some poppyseed kolaches. It’s from my grandmother’s recipe.”

“Then how can I resist?” I said, and we both reached for a cookie.

The moment I touched a kolache, I felt a gentle male presence nearby. I can’t eat and message at the same time, so I just held the cookie and began speaking.

“I have a gentleman with me,” I said, “a gregarious fellow who can’t wait to talk. He’s very tall and broad-shouldered, and has a thick moustache. He’s identifying himself as ‘great-grandfather, and he’s showing me his hands – he worked with his hands. Was he a sander?”

Dora dug through the papers in her file folder and pulled a cracked, yellowed photo of a burly man in a three-piece suit standing next to a seated woman who looked like she’d just swallowed a lemon slice. “This is Sandor,” she said, pronouncing the name as the Hungarian Shondor.

For the next twenty minutes Sandor “spoke” to me about the Nagy family, and told Dora where she might find some information about her family. Unfortunately, the church in Sandor’s village that held the village’s records burned down in the late 19th century. But the church’s graveyard had a small section for the Nagy family, if she had a way to view the tombstones.

“It seems that that Sandor’s son had two illegitimate children,” I said, passing her the information.

“Yes,” she said with a sigh, a bit embarrassed to admit her grandfather’s fallibility. “We know about those boys.”

“He says a girl was also fathered out of wedlock. By a woman who lived on a neighbouring farm.”

“Oh!” Dora sat back and shook her head. “We knew Béla was quite a rascal!”

A few more members of Dora’s spirit family came through (though Béla stayed quiet) and Dora filled several pages with notes. And when the session was over, she smiled happily and thanked me for all the material she’d received. She said she’d check out the information I’d given her and get back to me.

As I headed back to my office, I wondered about my own family tree. I had talked to some in spirit, but I could only trace my relatives back a few generations. There was so much about my roots I didn’t know, and seeing Dora made me curious to know more.

On my father’s side, my grandfather Sidney Kelly left Belfast and came to Canada; my father joked that Sidney was “kicked out of Ireland for stealing cows.” My mother’s family came from Austria and Czechoslovakia, and her father, Oscar Epstein, was a highly regarded hero for saving hundreds of Jews during World War II by bringing them to Canada.

And before that? Who were my ancestors during the Renaissance? Did some ancient Kelly in Gaul fight against Julius Caesar’s armies? Do I have Druid blood within me, and did my kin worship at Stonehenge?

Someday, I’ll travel to Belfast and get the real story about Sidney Kelly. We should all try to keep the roots of our family tree healthy and strong, I thought, as I reached for another kolache.

If you have any questions or comments on this subject or on any other spiritual matter, feel free to write me at mail@carolynmolnar.com. And please visit me again!


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Carolyn Molnar
Toronto Psychic Medium and Spiritual Teacher

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